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Thursday, March 27, 2008
Finding Your Passion
If you feel you have not found your passion, it could mean that you are not paying life the attention it requires. Once you give life some thought, it usually rewards you with the answers for the questions you have.
When you truly desire that thing which brings exhilarating joy and the feelings of fulfillment you deserve.
Then start with that thing which you would do just for the love of it. You would do it even if no one pays you to do it.
You would do it just for the way it makes you feel and others just love it when you do it.
When you wake up in the morning if all you can think about is to sing, then sing.
When you wake up in the morning if all you can think about is to write, then you should write.
Spend more time giving attention to those things and people that are important to you.
Pay more attention to those things that you love dearly and allow them to bring out some of God’s greatest treasures hidden inside of you. The more you do it, the better you will get. Once you start getting better, the quality of your life will improve and words can not explain the joys you will begin to experience.
Finding that thing can be a challenge for some people, but I know you have the gusto, the will, the fire and the oomph, so go for it.
When you truly desire that thing which brings exhilarating joy and the feelings of fulfillment you deserve.
Then start with that thing which you would do just for the love of it. You would do it even if no one pays you to do it.
You would do it just for the way it makes you feel and others just love it when you do it.
When you wake up in the morning if all you can think about is to sing, then sing.
When you wake up in the morning if all you can think about is to write, then you should write.
Spend more time giving attention to those things and people that are important to you.
Pay more attention to those things that you love dearly and allow them to bring out some of God’s greatest treasures hidden inside of you. The more you do it, the better you will get. Once you start getting better, the quality of your life will improve and words can not explain the joys you will begin to experience.
Finding that thing can be a challenge for some people, but I know you have the gusto, the will, the fire and the oomph, so go for it.
Wednesday, March 26, 2008
Feeling wanted, feeling used
How do you feel about someone using you?
Do you mind?
Well if the truth be told, we don’t like to feel ‘used’ but on the other hand we don’t mind being wanted.
Usually we associate the word, ‘used’ with expressions such as ‘I feel exploited’ or you may have heard others complain, ‘The only reason you paying me any attention is simply because of what you want from me’
‘Ouch!’
That is not good at all.
Some persons don’t like feeling used yet often times they do it to others.
I have realized too, that we are much more acceptable of feeling wanted or needed by someone, but not used.
Feeling used v Feeling wanted
Used: Persons usually feel unappreciated and not listened to
Wanted: Persons feel appreciated and their concerns are aired
Used: Many inhibitions, feels disconnected, closed circuit
Wanted: Freely gives, usually no hang-ups, open circuit
Used: Feels cheated and disrespected
Wanted: Happy to have made someone else day bright, feels treasured and valued
Used: Normally want out
Wanted: Wants to be around forever
People are so important we shouldn’t treat them like things or stuff. Take time out to care for each other and share a moment. It is already a vicious world out there, so let us not add any further power to that. The bridge between feeling used and feeling wanted is built with understanding, supported by listening and maintained by a willingness to change for the better.
A good place for us to begin is to start appreciating everyone and everything around us.
Do you mind?
Well if the truth be told, we don’t like to feel ‘used’ but on the other hand we don’t mind being wanted.
Usually we associate the word, ‘used’ with expressions such as ‘I feel exploited’ or you may have heard others complain, ‘The only reason you paying me any attention is simply because of what you want from me’
‘Ouch!’
That is not good at all.
Some persons don’t like feeling used yet often times they do it to others.
I have realized too, that we are much more acceptable of feeling wanted or needed by someone, but not used.
Feeling used v Feeling wanted
Used: Persons usually feel unappreciated and not listened to
Wanted: Persons feel appreciated and their concerns are aired
Used: Many inhibitions, feels disconnected, closed circuit
Wanted: Freely gives, usually no hang-ups, open circuit
Used: Feels cheated and disrespected
Wanted: Happy to have made someone else day bright, feels treasured and valued
Used: Normally want out
Wanted: Wants to be around forever
People are so important we shouldn’t treat them like things or stuff. Take time out to care for each other and share a moment. It is already a vicious world out there, so let us not add any further power to that. The bridge between feeling used and feeling wanted is built with understanding, supported by listening and maintained by a willingness to change for the better.
A good place for us to begin is to start appreciating everyone and everything around us.
Saturday, March 22, 2008
The power of WORDS
If you have ever said something to anyone and had it repeated to you in your very own words, then you know how powerful this can be. You are more likely to want to give in, once they use back your words at you.
A case in point, a father reprimanded his little girl for taking too much ice cream from the refrigerator. The little girl responded to him by saying, "Daddy you have always said I am a princess, and the princess gets whatever she wants"
Now, I am not a father but I imagined that the father would have no alternative but to agree. If those were his exact words and was not being taken out of context, then one can hardly argue with the Princess.
We often use this same method with the word of God whenever we pray. We use God's word back at Him and the bible does rightly encourage us to do just that. God is bound by his words. He honors His words.
I have just realized that we too are bound by our very own words. When it is returned to us, we have no alternative but to accept it. If our children master this technique when dealing with us, you can begin to imagine the power they will command
A case in point, a father reprimanded his little girl for taking too much ice cream from the refrigerator. The little girl responded to him by saying, "Daddy you have always said I am a princess, and the princess gets whatever she wants"
Now, I am not a father but I imagined that the father would have no alternative but to agree. If those were his exact words and was not being taken out of context, then one can hardly argue with the Princess.
We often use this same method with the word of God whenever we pray. We use God's word back at Him and the bible does rightly encourage us to do just that. God is bound by his words. He honors His words.
I have just realized that we too are bound by our very own words. When it is returned to us, we have no alternative but to accept it. If our children master this technique when dealing with us, you can begin to imagine the power they will command
Thursday, March 20, 2008
This generation should be most grateful
I have never lived before and I would imagine that none of us has ever lived before either. However some may argue otherwise. What is true too is that we can never be sure of the finer details of the life styles and the circumstances which faced those who were before us. Our fore fathers journey, we’ll never fully know.
I am however very cognizant that we are now living in an age where most of what we wish for or pray for we get. This is true for me and the people I see around me. What about your life? Is it true for you too?
We can conceptualize an idea or a thought and have it created or executed within seconds, minutes, days, weeks or months.
This ought to be one of the most grateful generations ever. Despite what others may say and seek to convince us, we have got so much to be thankful for.
Today, one of my colleagues shouted out in the office, “I wish I could have a slice of roast breadfruit now”
Roast Breadfruit and red herring or salt fish is a well loved dish in our culture.
I heard his request and called him over. I had spent the night putting together roast breadfruit and red herring for my lunch. I offered him two slices of breadfruit and made this same point to him. We get most of what we ask for.
Some persons will never be able to enjoy their life for this simple reason; they have not learnt the art of giving thanks. I am giving thanks for every blessing sent.
I am however very cognizant that we are now living in an age where most of what we wish for or pray for we get. This is true for me and the people I see around me. What about your life? Is it true for you too?
We can conceptualize an idea or a thought and have it created or executed within seconds, minutes, days, weeks or months.
This ought to be one of the most grateful generations ever. Despite what others may say and seek to convince us, we have got so much to be thankful for.
Today, one of my colleagues shouted out in the office, “I wish I could have a slice of roast breadfruit now”
Roast Breadfruit and red herring or salt fish is a well loved dish in our culture.
I heard his request and called him over. I had spent the night putting together roast breadfruit and red herring for my lunch. I offered him two slices of breadfruit and made this same point to him. We get most of what we ask for.
Some persons will never be able to enjoy their life for this simple reason; they have not learnt the art of giving thanks. I am giving thanks for every blessing sent.
Monday, March 17, 2008
Follow The Leader
Have you ever had the opportunity of driving behind someone en route to your desired destination? Maybe you have not. But I’m sure you have had to be led by someone in some way or another. Well the lessons here are appropriate in either case.
Today I traveled behind one of my friends after we were returning from picking up my car at the repair shop.
As we turned unto each road, I wondered why he chose certain roads over others. This resulted in some interesting stuff passing through my head, check these out:
1. Leadership doesn’t mean that the Leader knows best at all times nor does it assume that the leader is the most knowledgeable.We often times see this playing out especially if from our perspective we see either more efficient, feasible or better options.
Caution: We don’t all have the same wisdom. A good leader is one who is apt to teach.
2. There will always be this question in our minds or a churning in the stomach.
'How on earth did he/she get to that position?” There isn’t just cause here to rebel. Things are not always what they seem.
Caution: I have noticed that wherever there is rebellion, there are many rulers
3. In many cases, we choose who we want to lead us and so the option always remains to remove the leader. But what about those circumstances where the choice simply isn’t ours?Leaders become leaders either because they were appointed or we have opted to follow them.
Caution: If we cease to follow the leaders then they are no longer leading us. That is why leadership needs support at all times.
It may be safe grounds therefore, to admit that if you are not a good follower, you won’t make a good leader.
The highest order of leadership is that of a servant.
Leading and serving are really not two words we often find in the same sentence. There will always be misunderstanding, a better way of doing things and improved leadership skills.
Regardless of whether we are the one leading or following at the end of it all, how we deal with each other is of paramount importance.
I took the journey all the way with my friend; we both parked at the same time, and walked back to our office together. I’m sure it feels better than getting back five minutes earlier and walking up alone or sitting wondering why is he taking so long
Today I traveled behind one of my friends after we were returning from picking up my car at the repair shop.
As we turned unto each road, I wondered why he chose certain roads over others. This resulted in some interesting stuff passing through my head, check these out:
1. Leadership doesn’t mean that the Leader knows best at all times nor does it assume that the leader is the most knowledgeable.We often times see this playing out especially if from our perspective we see either more efficient, feasible or better options.
Caution: We don’t all have the same wisdom. A good leader is one who is apt to teach.
2. There will always be this question in our minds or a churning in the stomach.
'How on earth did he/she get to that position?” There isn’t just cause here to rebel. Things are not always what they seem.
Caution: I have noticed that wherever there is rebellion, there are many rulers
3. In many cases, we choose who we want to lead us and so the option always remains to remove the leader. But what about those circumstances where the choice simply isn’t ours?Leaders become leaders either because they were appointed or we have opted to follow them.
Caution: If we cease to follow the leaders then they are no longer leading us. That is why leadership needs support at all times.
It may be safe grounds therefore, to admit that if you are not a good follower, you won’t make a good leader.
The highest order of leadership is that of a servant.
Leading and serving are really not two words we often find in the same sentence. There will always be misunderstanding, a better way of doing things and improved leadership skills.
Regardless of whether we are the one leading or following at the end of it all, how we deal with each other is of paramount importance.
I took the journey all the way with my friend; we both parked at the same time, and walked back to our office together. I’m sure it feels better than getting back five minutes earlier and walking up alone or sitting wondering why is he taking so long
Friday, March 14, 2008
Everybody's got their friend
I believe that without a friend your life is incomplete and you are missing out on some of the great joys of life.
There is a saying which says, "A good friend is better than pocket money."
I have often wondered what type of person does not have a friend.
That someone you can share, connect and be yourself with. The bible even tells us that a friend loves at all times. A true friend will be honest with you. They will share in your good times and the ills of life. Just like a family, friendship is one of God's great inventions or institutions.
I looked around and noticed that even the weirdest of persons have their friends. Have you noticed?
Friendship, like everything else comes at a cost. There are things you would perhaps never do for money that you readily do for a friend.
I once heard of a man who had an expensive painting at his home office. One day, a business associate came in, saw the picture and offered to purchase it for $250,000. The owner refused even after much pleading by his associate.
A few weeks later, one of the owner’s friends entered his office and saw the same painting on the wall.
He exclaimed, “Wow, I have been looking for a painting like this one for some time now!”
The owner then asked, “Would you like this one?”
His friend replied, “Sure I would like it.”
The owner took the picture down and handed it to his friend.
Money is essential, education is a must; but with friendship life still can be beautiful, even in the absence of money and the lack of an education. Life can be so worthwhile when there are people close and dear, persons with whom we can share, persons we call friends.
There is a saying which says, "A good friend is better than pocket money."
I have often wondered what type of person does not have a friend.
That someone you can share, connect and be yourself with. The bible even tells us that a friend loves at all times. A true friend will be honest with you. They will share in your good times and the ills of life. Just like a family, friendship is one of God's great inventions or institutions.
I looked around and noticed that even the weirdest of persons have their friends. Have you noticed?
Friendship, like everything else comes at a cost. There are things you would perhaps never do for money that you readily do for a friend.
I once heard of a man who had an expensive painting at his home office. One day, a business associate came in, saw the picture and offered to purchase it for $250,000. The owner refused even after much pleading by his associate.
A few weeks later, one of the owner’s friends entered his office and saw the same painting on the wall.
He exclaimed, “Wow, I have been looking for a painting like this one for some time now!”
The owner then asked, “Would you like this one?”
His friend replied, “Sure I would like it.”
The owner took the picture down and handed it to his friend.
Money is essential, education is a must; but with friendship life still can be beautiful, even in the absence of money and the lack of an education. Life can be so worthwhile when there are people close and dear, persons with whom we can share, persons we call friends.
Thursday, March 13, 2008
Broken Homes
Why can't we all just get along?
The number of marriages that have gone sour in 2007 is amazing. I learnt recently that one of the easiest ways to bring people together is to give them a common goal. Yes that’s true. I am surprised, however at just how many homes are broken.
Are we fighting the same battles? Are we on the same side? Is the enemy clearly identified and defined?
I have made a list of what I believe to be some of the main causes why families do not enjoy healthy relationships:
I also realize that we all live with something which we aim to get better at, just as I must live with your faults, you should be willing to live with mine. I exercise patience when dealing with you and you when dealing with me. I know it isn’t all that simple. But for F-A-M-I-L-Y it is worth it.
F-ather
A-nd
M-other
I-n
L-ove and
Y-ou
The number of marriages that have gone sour in 2007 is amazing. I learnt recently that one of the easiest ways to bring people together is to give them a common goal. Yes that’s true. I am surprised, however at just how many homes are broken.
Are we fighting the same battles? Are we on the same side? Is the enemy clearly identified and defined?
I have made a list of what I believe to be some of the main causes why families do not enjoy healthy relationships:
Selfishness
Lack of Trust
Greed
Fear
Poor Communication
Lack of Persistence
Stubbornness
Lack of self control
I also realize that we all live with something which we aim to get better at, just as I must live with your faults, you should be willing to live with mine. I exercise patience when dealing with you and you when dealing with me. I know it isn’t all that simple. But for F-A-M-I-L-Y it is worth it.
F-ather
A-nd
M-other
I-n
L-ove and
Y-ou
Wednesday, March 12, 2008
Music Impacting Our Behaviors?
In my little country there is much talk today as to whether music is influencing the attitudes and mannerisms of our children. Strange enough, some of the people who deny music having any impact are ‘musicians’ themselves. There is even talk about whether the dance moves are teaching our children early sexual behaviors.
The original translation of the word music comes from a word which means 'to think'.
Music influences the human mind, spirit, soul and emotions in various ways.
Let us look at what are some of the uses of music:
Music is used to:
The original translation of the word music comes from a word which means 'to think'.
Music influences the human mind, spirit, soul and emotions in various ways.
Let us look at what are some of the uses of music:
Music is used to:
Celebrate
Conjure evil spirits
Put a person into a trance
Worship
Entertain
Music creates a certain mood or feeling within all of us. Different music will have different effect on each person. In past times and to a lesser extent today, music is used to summon the troops to prepare for battle. The use of the trumpet is one such instrument used for signaling.
The sound of music naturally causes movement in the human body. We move to the pulsating rhythm of music without any conscious effort. The body just naturally will gyrate to a rhythm.
The Music videos and the music itself dictate trends, fashions and even help with the development of what becomes culture.
Our Rappers, DJs, Singers and Musicians command a certain power over their listeners or their audience. I could give numerous examples of how music has influenced the development of what is called the rich Jamaican culture.
In conclusion, this is not something we can deny. If there are uncertainties then it has to do with the degree of the impact of music on the human mind and how does it influence their behavior.
The world is still not so sure of the full effects of music upon the human mind. This still remains something to be properly researched and explored.
This is what the bible tells us:“Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according
Tuesday, March 11, 2008
I'm Not Perfect
What would you think if I were to walk around with a BIG sign posted on my chest advertising all my weaknesses and the stuffs I wasn't so good at?
You would probably say I was strange.
Does it make a difference whether a person admits their weakness up front as against you finding it out? What is your take on it?
For those of my friends with children, how do your children react when they suddenly realize mom and dad aren't so perfect after all? Would it make it easier to handle if we told them up front what our struggles are?
I raise my hat to those persons who are able to have and maintain a fully balance life. You eat healthy all the time, get enough sleep, keep all your appointments, spend the extra time that your job demands, time for church, time for God, time for family, your friends and your community, exercise and so on and so forth. I really raise my hat to you if you are able to do all that while not frustrating yourself in the process.
This is hard but here goes, I'm not perfect. See, it wasn't so bad after all. I have a few cracks. I believe this is the main reason why we all have to forgive, both self and others. It make sense, since I'm not perfect you have got to be prepared to forgive me as I will get somethings wrong sometimes. Hey! Come on, forgive yourself, I did; now I am free.
You would probably say I was strange.
Does it make a difference whether a person admits their weakness up front as against you finding it out? What is your take on it?
For those of my friends with children, how do your children react when they suddenly realize mom and dad aren't so perfect after all? Would it make it easier to handle if we told them up front what our struggles are?
I raise my hat to those persons who are able to have and maintain a fully balance life. You eat healthy all the time, get enough sleep, keep all your appointments, spend the extra time that your job demands, time for church, time for God, time for family, your friends and your community, exercise and so on and so forth. I really raise my hat to you if you are able to do all that while not frustrating yourself in the process.
This is hard but here goes, I'm not perfect. See, it wasn't so bad after all. I have a few cracks. I believe this is the main reason why we all have to forgive, both self and others. It make sense, since I'm not perfect you have got to be prepared to forgive me as I will get somethings wrong sometimes. Hey! Come on, forgive yourself, I did; now I am free.
Sunday, March 9, 2008
Fix It Attitude
Is it true that the man generally have a greater tendency to fix what gets broken around the house? Mmmhh!
This is one of the things I have accepted and grown to love. It really is something I enjoy doing. I like fixing things especially just to see the joy on the faces. When things are right, who isn’t happy?
This morning as I was getting ready to shower for work, I noticed the toilet pipe kept on running with no sound as though the tank would reach its maximum anytime soon. The float was not triggering the water to stop flowing, i thought to myself. After completing my shower, I proceeded to remove the cover from the water tank, quickly diagnosed the problem, had it corrected in seconds and was on my merry way. It felt really good.
Women love it when their man is able to fix and care for the things around the house. I have just recently leant that the main reason a woman tend to get so worked up or be so meticulous about the way her house looks is simply because her house is a reflection of her. Is this really true? If it is, I like the idea.
I believe in my quest to be a better man for 2008 I will have to fix more of things which are broken. Men, this is something our women are relying on us to do, FIX IT!
This is one of the things I have accepted and grown to love. It really is something I enjoy doing. I like fixing things especially just to see the joy on the faces. When things are right, who isn’t happy?
This morning as I was getting ready to shower for work, I noticed the toilet pipe kept on running with no sound as though the tank would reach its maximum anytime soon. The float was not triggering the water to stop flowing, i thought to myself. After completing my shower, I proceeded to remove the cover from the water tank, quickly diagnosed the problem, had it corrected in seconds and was on my merry way. It felt really good.
Women love it when their man is able to fix and care for the things around the house. I have just recently leant that the main reason a woman tend to get so worked up or be so meticulous about the way her house looks is simply because her house is a reflection of her. Is this really true? If it is, I like the idea.
I believe in my quest to be a better man for 2008 I will have to fix more of things which are broken. Men, this is something our women are relying on us to do, FIX IT!
Friday, March 7, 2008
Thursday, March 6, 2008
When is Love Alone not Enough?
I grew up hearing two conflicting thoughts on love.
The first idea was that once you love someone you can always work things out. Love is everything. The Bible also tells us that Love will cover a multitude of sin. Hundreds of songs written and performed imploring us that what the world needs is love. But when is it that love alone isn't enough?
The second thought around is that love alone will not keep a relationship together. Love alone won't work. “I thought I love him or her and that it could work out.” That is the aching voice of another heart break. Some persons even said that love will not be able to buy food when you are hungry nor clothe you when you are naked.
Then I ask yet again, when is love alone not enough?
As I am writing this I believe that the deficiencies are as a result of an unbalanced equation. Perhaps if everyone was aiming to balance it out then love alone would be enough.
If we all held love as our highest goal it perhaps would be enough.
What do you think?
The first idea was that once you love someone you can always work things out. Love is everything. The Bible also tells us that Love will cover a multitude of sin. Hundreds of songs written and performed imploring us that what the world needs is love. But when is it that love alone isn't enough?
The second thought around is that love alone will not keep a relationship together. Love alone won't work. “I thought I love him or her and that it could work out.” That is the aching voice of another heart break. Some persons even said that love will not be able to buy food when you are hungry nor clothe you when you are naked.
Then I ask yet again, when is love alone not enough?
As I am writing this I believe that the deficiencies are as a result of an unbalanced equation. Perhaps if everyone was aiming to balance it out then love alone would be enough.
If we all held love as our highest goal it perhaps would be enough.
What do you think?
Accused of being a Smiley
Even today, I am known to be a smiling person. I have found that people who smile a lot are some of the most pleasant people in the world.
Another thing is that a smile is contagious; if you don’t believe me, try it yourself. Just smile at someone today and watch their response. I wish for you a day filled with smiles; they may not solve all your problems but they'll certainly help to soothe what ails you.
"Wear a smile- it is cheap but its lasting effect is beyond value"
copy right (c) 2007 J.D. Gordon All Rights Reserved
Wednesday, March 5, 2008
What Stays in Your Memory Most?
As I was taking time out to relax earlier today I asked myself an all important question.
What lodge or reside in my memory more, good or bad experiences?
Which take up more of my memory space, first or last time experiences?
I have realized that the things we do today, tomorrow and hereafter is greatly impacted by whatever saturates our memory most. Our memories help to determine our future behaviors, I would say. It is almost like a receptacle. If it is a garbage receptacle then the consequences are going to be damaging and unpleasant. If it is a sterilized mind then the quality of our life will be super.
God desires that we saturate our memory with pleasant experiences and filter the tragic and detestable ones. One day while I was traveling to school I witnessed a very tragic motor vehicle accident along the main road where I use to live. It was such a horrifying experience that from where I was standing I could see body parts. One child was literally cut in two and there were signs of his intestine on the ground. This experience has never left my mind since that day.
I know I will certainly have to do some mind spring cleaning. But what do you say? What stays in your memory most?
For me, I dwell a lot on the good stuff.
What lodge or reside in my memory more, good or bad experiences?
Which take up more of my memory space, first or last time experiences?
I have realized that the things we do today, tomorrow and hereafter is greatly impacted by whatever saturates our memory most. Our memories help to determine our future behaviors, I would say. It is almost like a receptacle. If it is a garbage receptacle then the consequences are going to be damaging and unpleasant. If it is a sterilized mind then the quality of our life will be super.
God desires that we saturate our memory with pleasant experiences and filter the tragic and detestable ones. One day while I was traveling to school I witnessed a very tragic motor vehicle accident along the main road where I use to live. It was such a horrifying experience that from where I was standing I could see body parts. One child was literally cut in two and there were signs of his intestine on the ground. This experience has never left my mind since that day.
I know I will certainly have to do some mind spring cleaning. But what do you say? What stays in your memory most?
For me, I dwell a lot on the good stuff.
Tuesday, March 4, 2008
The Way a Woman Carries Her Hair
Most men take time out to admire beautiful ladies and particularly well done creative hair-do. I have always held the view that the way a woman carries her hair says a lot about her personality; which tells us whether she is a boring person or very adventurous. Yes! all this by just the way she carries her hair.
From the repeated styling of a woman's hair I can tell whether she is reserved or extravagant, whether she spends all her time caring for her hair and ignore her house or vice a versa.
Every time I enter into a discussion like this one I win the attention of the ladies. Some even admit that they suffer from bad hair days very often.
As someone who love people in general, ladies who get my attention are those who do a good job with their hair.
Some persons may disagree with me. But whatever your argument, some ladies are always creative regardless of the money and time factor.
From the repeated styling of a woman's hair I can tell whether she is reserved or extravagant, whether she spends all her time caring for her hair and ignore her house or vice a versa.
Every time I enter into a discussion like this one I win the attention of the ladies. Some even admit that they suffer from bad hair days very often.
As someone who love people in general, ladies who get my attention are those who do a good job with their hair.
Some persons may disagree with me. But whatever your argument, some ladies are always creative regardless of the money and time factor.
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