I know there will be those who would like to see the heading revised to read, “Guys who hastily misread girls’ signal”
But, if you have ever been misled by a girl then you know exactly how it feels to be oh so wrong, about what you thought felt oh so right! As a youngster I had many female friends which somehow gave me a better understanding of the female specie than my male peers did. I have always been cautious of the fact that you could fall for someone who never even as much as know your name. Read on let me share a little secret with you.
Girls who are very friendly and easy to interact with are most likely the ones to find themselves in this love-ring, whether knowingly or not. A technique I have used in the past, which worked for most of the time, was to always declare my hand. “Yes, we are just friends”. I would make sure to outline my intentions from the outset. Some may also argue that even with the ‘caution clause’ love sometimes doesn’t play by the rules.
The other matter is: Are the girls really misleading the guys or is it that the guys are just expecting too much too quickly? Whatever the case, the tables do turn. Let those who have something up their sleeves, declare it early.
The fact is this could happen to anyone. You can be so magnetically drawn to the person without even knowing it; especially for those who do not do regular ‘emotional inventory’.
Let us not have a fight over who is more misleading. Our varying personality is what makes life so exciting and interesting. When in doubt, just ask. If he or she is worth it, then go for it. Remember timing is everything